i haven't been on in a little while. I'm about to explain why.
So people advised me to just try and guage what the problem was. I did that. Asked him if everything was ok at work, if there was something he wanted to talk about etc. etc. I got ignored most times.
Finally, last week, i couldn't keep it up anymore. I outright said 'Just tell me. Are you having a affair again??' And.. he didn't answer me. That was enough for me. I made him leave the house, i couldn't stand the sight of him. He's still in some bedsit 20 miles away and Mia keeps asking where Daddy is.
LuisFTS
Roxi,
From here, the only thing that I can tell it's "hang on"!
Since the word "again" was used, I can't even try to think that you didn't the right thing.
You are a smart girl, since you´re writing here, seaching for different points of view.
You are in a "turning point" in your life, sometimes it's a scary situation, but it's time to changes. Move on!
Mia deserve a better life.
There's another kid on the way, isn't it?
Another one that deserve a better life. Someday they'll understand.
And specially, YOU deserve a better life.
Ther's a song that helped me in my own time "Don't worry, be happy". Concentrate on what is going to get better, and not in past mistakes. New goals, dreams and happiness. You have the chance to change your life.
Good luck, and success!
Luis Santos