i haven't been on in a little while. I'm about to explain why.

So people advised me to just try and guage what the problem was. I did that. Asked him if everything was ok at work, if there was something he wanted to talk about etc. etc. I got ignored most times.

Finally, last week, i couldn't keep it up anymore. I outright said 'Just tell me. Are you having a affair again??' And.. he didn't answer me. That was enough for me. I made him leave the house, i couldn't stand the sight of him. He's still in some bedsit 20 miles away and Mia keeps asking where Daddy is.